I have been visiting my partner every weekend am/pm for the best 2 1/2 years. The first 18mths I came every sat and Sunday both mornings and afternoons. Then the last year every sat am/ pm. I am usually the only visitor on the ward although there have been times other visitors have visited the same time as me. Its never been a problem before but now I am told this has changed. I can only visit am or pm and my partner is only allowed one visit per weekend, so if my partners relatives visit him on a Saturday I am not allowed now to visit him on a Sunday. Nobody is saying why this has changed and who this has come from. Duty social worker didnt know anything about this, security staff Ive spoken to arent aware, ward staff are saying they just received and email from their ward manager, so wheres this come from? Whats the point in having visiting hours when your not allowed to visit?? This impacts on depriving the patient from a positive experience to help ease their confinement in that awful place, and deprives me from the pleasure of seeing my partner. When I ask questions about any new changes or restrictions put in place regarding my partner staff never tell me why even though my partner has given me permission to be kept informed about all aspects of the care received. Overall my experience of the hospital has been negative, I as a visitor have seen and heard unprofessional conduct towards my partner and also I myself have been treated with no respect . I understand theres aspects of the work that can be difficult and not all the staff are unhelpful but I have been shocked and upset many times as to how myself and my partner have been treated. The visiting hours should not be restricted its the only highlight of our week and its unfair to take this away. The hospital needs to
uphold them. And if I book to visit am on a particular weekend day if theres no other visitors in the afternoon why cant I visit pm as well like I have always done?? Not every ward is overflowing with visitors every weekend, Im sure if necessary extra staff could be accessed from elsewhere.
Original CommentReply from Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust
Mon, 16 Sep 2019 10:11:00 +0100
Thank you for this posting. I wonder if you could give us a little more by way of detail: for example the ward?
Best wishes Peter